Archive for December, 2009

Feast of the Holy Family 12-27-2009

Sunday, December 27th, 2009

During his 1967 Super Bowl season with the Green Bay Packers, the great quarterback Bart Starr had a deal with his oldest son.  For every perfect paper Bart Junior brought home from school, Bart Starr would give him ten cents – a pretty nifty sum of money for a kid back then.

In the course of the season, Starr had a particularly rough game against the (then) St. Louis Cardinals.  Starr was discouraged and angry about his own performance.  He returned home late that night, weary and battered, after a long plane ride.  But his spirits lifted immediately when he found this note on his pillow:

Dear Dad, I thought you played a great game.  Love, Bart.

And taped to the note were two dimes.

Within our families we experience the heights of joy and the depths of pain.  Our belonging to a family means that each one of us – parent and child – reflects for the other the selfless, limitless and unconditional love of Christ, both in good times and (more importantly) in bad times.  The Holy Family of Joseph, Mary and the child Jesus, in the suffering and tragedy they endured together, is a model for us and our own families as we confront the many tensions and crises that threaten the stability, peace and unity that are the joys of being a family.

I would like to leave you with this thought today; in the midst of all the wild and weird conflicts we may face in our families, God wants to be part of them.  In the midst of the shouting matches, doors being slammed, people pouting and not speaking to each other, holding grudges, and in alcoholic or abusive situations, GOD THE HOLY IS THERE!  God is not embarrassed to be there and God wants to help.

As we begin the year of 2010, I pray that as we face conflicts in our families, when we feel overwhelmed and everything seems impossible and we try to resolve our differences – that we will be humble and wise enough to seek help for ourselves.  Especially, the comfort, the grace and the peace that God alone can offer our families.

christmas 2009 12-25-2009

Friday, December 25th, 2009

Wally was big for a first grader. Everybody loved Wally. No bully, he was the gentlest of souls. Wally was a friend even to the smallest kids at school.
When the school staged its Christmas play, Wally wanted to be one of the shepherds. Bu the teacher directing the play had a larger role in mind for Wally. Wally was cast as the innkeeper. Wally practiced and practiced, but became more and more nervous about his lines.
The night of the play, everything was going beautifully. Then came the part where Mary and Joseph knocked on the door of the inn. Wally answered the door right on cue and gave his line.
“What do you want?”
“We seek lodging,” came the response.
“Seek it elsewhere, the inn is filled,” Wally replied, with just the right touch of brusque annoyance.
“But, sir, we have tried everywhere, we have come a long way, and we are very tired.”
“Go away,” Wally properly commanded. “There is no room in my inn for you.”
“But sir, my wife is with child. Don’t you have a corner where we can get out of the cold?”
That’s when it happened. Wally broke his icy stare and looked at Mary. There was a long silence. The audience became nervous and uneasy. Everyone thought Wally had forgotten his lines.
“No, be gone,” the prompter whispered.
“No, be gone,” Wally said halfheartedly. Joseph sadly placed his arm around Mary as they began to move off the stage. Wally couldn’t stand it any longer. Big he was, cruel he could never be. With big tears welling in his eyes he gave a performance never to be forgotten.
“Wait, Joseph, don’t go!” Wally cried. “Bring Mary back. You can have my room and I’ll sleep in the cold.”
A few people thought Wally had ruined the Christmas pageant. But most knew better.
Wally the reluctant innkeeper embodied the spirit of our Christmas celebration, expressed so eloquently in Isaac Watts’ beautiful hymn: “let every heart prepare him room.” The reality is that Christmas is a challenge to us and our values and our dreams. Just as Joseph is challenged by God to welcome the child into his home and heart despite the difficult circumstances, God challenges us to welcome his Christ into our everyday lives and allow the child to transform our hearts and homes in his peace and justice.
If you are ready to take up the Christmas challenge, then let me leave you with a few words as a special reminder to you:
“It is Christmas! It is the most wondrous feast – the birthday of the One who came to show us a God of love. How beautiful are the feet of those who walk the extra step across a room to greet someone with whom they have had differences. How beautiful are the feet of those who step beyond the material gifts and appreciate the heart of the giver. How beautiful are the feet of those who move about in the kitchen making the special foods and serving the guests who gather. How beautiful are the feet of those who not only go to church services but who also fully participate by greeting others joyfully, praying and singing heartily. How beautiful are the feet of those who walk into homeless shelters or places with little comfort to bring some of their own abundance.
Yes, how beautiful are all those feet who walk with the good news this day, with the intention of love in their hearts, for they are living the message of the One who came so long ago. The Christ of abundant love, born over two thousand years ago, lives on in us. As our feet take us near and far, let us continue to be the Christ to one another.
I close:
Divine Messenger,
We will carry the good news of your abundant and abiding love to all we meet and greet today, tomorrow, forever.” Amen

The Jesse Tree – Our Family Picture Album By Deacon Patrick Conway 12-13-2009

Sunday, December 13th, 2009

Most of us have family pictures displayed in our homes – family portraits, baby pictures, wedding pictures, vacation photos, relatives of far away or long ago. Why do we do this? I suppose there are many reasons, but one reason is that these pictures remind us who we are, where we came from, what we’ve accomplished. They remind us that we’re connected to a bigger reality, that we’re part of a bigger “picture.” Especially on days when we’re feeling alone and insignificant, they can strengthen us and give us hope.

We also have Church family pictures, images from our stories of faith that remind us of who we are, where we came from, and that we’re connected to a bigger reality. Every Advent we put up this big painting of the Jesse Tree. This was painted by some parishioners about 15 or 20 years ago, because they thought it was important for us to remember where we come from.

Let’s look at the different images and remember our story. First of all, we see the tree itself, reminding us that this is a family tree, not necessarily a family of blood, but a family united by a common faith. And the Star of David shows us that we are rooted in the Jewish faith. Our story is a part of the Jewish story, and our lives are forever intertwined with theirs.

From the Jews we get our understanding of God, and of how God created all things, including Adam and Eve. Now, we don’t have a picture of Adam and Eve here, but we do have some pictures that remind us of them – the apple and the snake. You know the story – Adam and Eve bit the apple and, ever since, our teeth ache, as the old proverb goes. They sinned, and we inherited this tendency to sin, what we call “original sin”, from them.

But God had a plan to save us from the beginning. Our ancestor in faith Noah to build an ark to save the humans and the animals from the flood. That reminds us that the Church is an ark that saves us from the flood of sin. And the rainbow above the ark reminds us of God’s promise to save us.

One of our greatest ancestors, you might call him the granddaddy of them all, was Abraham. He and his wife Sarah were visited by three angels who told them that they were going to have a son, even though they were very old. Sarah laughed when she heard that, so they told her the baby would be named “laughter – Isaac”.

Isaac had a son named Jacob, and one night Jacob had a dream. In his dream he saw the angels descending and ascending a ladder to and from heaven. Another night, Jacob had a mysterious encounter with God that involved some wrestling – and Jacob won! So God gave Jacob a new name – “Israel”, which means “the one who wrestles with God and wins.

Well, you know what happened to Jacob and his twelve sons. They ended up in Egypt. Things went well for a while, but then their descendents ended up as slaves. Seems like people are always feeling threatened by the Israelites and end up persecuting them. This went on for four hundred years! Then God had enough of that and raised up Moses to deliver his people and lead them to the promised land. Moses met God in the burning bush, and later on God gave Moses the Law. For them, freedom came through faithfulness to God, demonstrated by obedience to the Law.

When the Israelites finally got to the Promised Land, things weren’t easy. They had to fight the locals for control of the land. This went on for generations. Some things never change! Once city they came up against was Jericho. Joshua sent spies to find out how they could best attack the city, and they met a prostitute named Rahab. When the Jericho soldiers went looking for the spies, Rahab hid them and helped them escape. As a reward for her help, the spies told her to hang a red sash out of her window and the Israelite army would spare her when the attacked the city. She ended up joining the Israelites and is a direct ancestor of King David and of Jesus.

King David’s great-grandmother was another foreigner, a woman named Ruth. When she was widowed, she told her Israelite mother-in-law Naomi, “Wherever you go, I will go. Your people will be my people, and your God will be my God.” She was gathering wheat in the field when she met her future husband Boaz.

Then came David, who played the harp. The key represents the promise that one of David’s descendents would be a king who would rule forever and open the gates of eternal life for us. Of course, that was Jesus.

David’s son Solomon built the first temple, but later he turned away from God. The Israelites became divided and unfaithful, so God had to raise up prophets to remind them who they were and whose they were.

A reluctant prophet was Jonah (the whale). He was called not to preach to the Israelites, but to those awful foreigners the Ninevites. From this we learn that God wants to save all people, no matter what tribe or country they’re from.

The lilies represent Mary, the mother of Jesus, who was pure and beautiful. And, of course, Jesus was born in Bethlehem, the City of David, which means “House of Bread”. Baby Jesus was put in a manger to show that he was the Bread of Eternal Life.

The herald angels announced his birth, and the star pointed the way to him. Here is the Holy Family, Jesus, Mary and Joseph, surrounded by the golden cord of charity.

Jesus is the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. In the Beginning, all things were made through him, and in the End, all things will be fulfilled in him. And he holds out the crown of life to all who remain faithful to him.

This is our faith family tree – the Jesse Tree. It shows us where we’ve come from, and it points the way to where we’re going – eternal life with our King and Savior, Jesus Christ. It helps us to remember who we are, and whose we are. May we always remember and never forget!