George and Lois Woods live on a hill situated above a highway just outside Palmer, Texas. Next to their home they built a “Prayer Stop” for travelers. It’s simply a small A-frame chapel. A walk curves up to it from the highway.
In the chapel is a log book. As you page through it, you see the names and comments of visitors from as far away as Africa.
One visitor wrote in the log book: “I came to the Prayer Stop a year ago with no car and no job. Now things are much better. I am leaving you some money.”
Another visitor wrote that he had been drinking and was on his way to kill someone with whom he had gotten into an argument. He saw the chapel on the hill, stopped, spent time sitting in it, abandoned his plan, and returned home.
The most frequent visitors to the Prayer Stop, says Lois Woods, are wives and mothers of convicts on their way to the state prison not far away.
But of all the people who have visited the chapel, George and Lois Woods will never forget one group in particular.
One evening they heard a deafening roar of engines. Lois went to the window to see what was happening. She was shocked at what she saw. A gang of motorcyclists was driving single file up the walk that led from the highway to the chapel. It was a frightening sight.
Some were wearing leather jackets and chains. Most had scraggly beards and long hair. Some had their hair knotted into ponytails with rubber bands.
George joined Lois at the window and said, “I’m not going out there. It’s in God’s hands”.
As the couple looked on in fear, the gang got off their cycles. Several of them disappeared into the chapel; others just milled around outside, as though standing guard.
After about ten minutes, those who had gone inside came out again. Then the cyclists did something totally unexpected.
They gathered around the cross in front of the chapel, joined hands together, bowed their heads, and remained in silence for a long time. Finally, the cyclists set out again, down the walk, in single file, to the highway.
George and Lois looked on in amazement. They also looked on somewhat repentant. They had found themselves jumping to conclusions about the motorcyclists, judging them by their outward appearance.
That episode taught George and Lois what they already knew but needed to be reminded of again: You can’t jump to conclusions about people.
It reminded them of God’s words in the First Book of Samuel:
“Not as man sees does God see, because man sees the appearance but the Lord looks into the heart”. (1 Samuel 16:7)
The story of Lois and George and the motorcycle gang fits in beautifully with the story of Simon and the woman in today’s gospel.
Just as George and Lois jumped to conclusions about the motorcycle gang, so Simon jumped to conclusions about the woman.
George and Lois prejudged the cyclists and labeled them evil people. Simon prejudged the woman and labeled her an evil person.
Worse yet, Simon even prejudged Jesus himself and labeled him a fraud for treating the woman so kindly, saying: “If this man were a prophet, he would know who and what sort of woman this is…that she is a sinner”.
The story of George and Lois and the story of Simon invite us to look into our own hearts and to ask ourselves to what extent we tend to prejudge people.
All of us—fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, yes, even grandfathers and grandmothers—tend to do what Lois and George did.
We tend to do what Simon did. We tend to jump to conclusions. We tend to prejudge others—even our own family members.
And so today’s gospel is an invitation to imitate Jesus. It’s an invitation to follow the teaching of Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount, when he said: “Stop judging, that you may not be judged. For as you judge, so will you be judged”. (Matthew 7:1-2)
Let’s close with a poem. It talks about how wrongly we can judge others.
“I dreamed death came the other night, and Heaven’s gate swung wide. With kindly grace an angel ushered me inside; and there to my astonishment stood folks I’d known on earth; and some I’d judged and labeled unfit of little worth. Indignant words rose to my lips, but never were set free; for every face showed stunned surprise. Not one expected me”.
Archive for June, 2010
Prayer Stop 6-13-2010
Sunday, June 13th, 2010Catalina/Salesian Sisters/Palma 8th Grade Graduation 2010
Wednesday, June 9th, 2010I know later this morning (later this week) you will listen to an inspirational and challenging graduation address. For now, I would like to introduce you to an inspirational and challenging young man: Patrick Henry Hughes. I met Patrick at a conference in Chicago; he didn’t play for the Chicago Bulls, Chicago Bears, or the Chicago White Sox. Patrick was born with no eyes, and a tightening of the joints, which left him crippled for life.
However, as a child, he was fitted with artificial eyes and placed in a wheelchair. Before his first birthday, he discovered the piano. His mom said, “I could hit any note on the piano, and within one or two tries, he’d get it”. By his second birthday, he was playing requests (“You Are My Sunshine”, “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star”). His father was ecstatic. “We might not play baseball, but we can play music together”.
Today, Patrick is a junior at the University of Louisville. His father attends classes with him and he’s made nearly all A’s, with the exception of 3 B’s. He’s also a part of the 214-member marching band. You heard it right…the marching band! He’s a blind, wheelchair-bound trumpet player; and he and his father do it together. They attend all the band practices and the half-time performance in front of thousands. His father rolls and rotates his son around the field to the cheers of Patrick’s fans. In order to attend Patrick’s classes and every band practice, his father works the graveyard shift at UPS. Patrick says, “My dad’s my hero”.
But even more than his unbelievable musical talent, it was Patrick’s “attitude of gratitude” that touched my soul. On stage, between songs, he talked to the audience about his life and about how blessed he was. He said, “God made me blind and unable to walk. BIG DEAL! He gave me the ability…the musical gifts I have…the great opportunity to meet new people”.
When his performance was over, Patrick and his father were on the stage together. The crowd rose to their feet and cheered for over five minutes. It gave me giant goose bumps!
My life was ready to meet Patrick Henry Hughes. I needed a hero, and I found one for the ages. If I live to be a hundred, I’ll never forget that night, that smile, that music, but most importantly, that wonderful “attitude of gratitude”.
I shared Patrick’s story with a lot of my friends and received a letter from them regarding Patrick. He said, “Ron, I don’t know who said this, but I think you will like this quote”. “Life is not about waiting for the storms to pass…it’s about learning to dance in the rain”. I thought…that’s it. We all face adversity in our life, however it’s not the adversity, but how we react to it that will determine the joy and happiness in our lives.
Graduates, I leave you with two thoughts and pray that you will take them with you wherever you go.
First, during tough times, and we will all have them, do we spend too much time feeling sorry for ourselves or can we, like Patrick Henry Hughes–with gratitude in our hearts–learn how to dance in the rain.
Second, it almost sounds too simple to feel important, but one word “gratitude” can change your attitude, and thus your life. As another wise person said, “When we choose not to focus on what is missing from our lives, but are grateful for the abundance that is present…we experience heaven on earth”.
God Bless You All.
