The Feast of the Holy Family. 12-29-2024
December 21st, 2024the great quarterback Bart Starr had a deal with his oldest son. For every
perfect paper Bart Junior brought home from school, Bart Starr would
give him ten cents – a pretty nifty sum of money for a kid back then.
In the course of the season, Starr had a particularly rough game
against the (then) St. Louis Cardinals. Starr was discouraged and angry
about his own performance. He returned home late that night, weary
and battered, after a long plane ride. But his spirits lifted immediately
when he found this note on his pillow:
Dear Dad, I thought you played a great game. Love, Bart.
And taped to the note were two dimes.
Within our families we experience the heights of joy and the
depths of pain. Our belonging to a family means that each one of us –
parent and child – reflects for the other the selfless, limitless and
unconditional love of Christ, both in good times and (more importantly)
in bad times. The Holy Family of Joseph, Mary and the child Jesus, in
the suffering and tragedy they endured together, is a model for us and
our own families as we confront the many tensions and crises that
threaten the stability, peace and unity that are the joys of being a family.
I would like to leave you with this thought today; in the midst of
all the wild and weird conflicts we may face in our families, God wants
to be part of them. In the midst of the shouting matches, doors being
slammed, people pouting and not speaking to each other, holding
grudges, and in alcoholic or abusive situations, GOD THE HOLY IS
THERE! God is not embarrassed to be there and God wants to help.
As we begin the year of 2025, I pray that as we face conflicts in
our families, when we feel overwhelmed and everything seems
impossible and we try to resolve our differences – that we will be
humble and wise enough to seek help for ourselves. Especially, the
comfort, the grace and the peace that God alone can offer our families.
I Done It For Love. 12-25-2024
December 21st, 2024It was Christmas Eve and a young mother was busy wrapping the
very last package. She asked her little boy to polish her shoes for the
next morning’s Christmas Mass. And off he went.
The little fellow was gone quite awhile, but when he returned, he
was beaming as he presented the shined shoes to his mother. “What a
perfect shoe shine!” she said. And with that she gave him a shiny new
quarter for working so hard and doing so well.
The next morning when she was dressing for church, she found
something lodged in the toe of her shoe – something tiny, wrapped in a
crumpled piece of paper.
Carefully she opened the tiny package, and inside she found the
quarter she’s given her little boy for shining her shoes.
Written on the crumpled paper in his childish scrawl were these
words, “Dear Mama, I done it for love!”
As we gather this night (this day) and hear again the story of Jesus’
birth in a stable, and as we remember with sadness where this wonderful
child’s life came to its conclusion on the cross — we have to ask God —
“Why did you do it, God? Why did you give us all you have and hold
nothing back? Why did you give us your Son?”
From out of the stillness God is whispering a response — “I gave
you all I have, because I want you to know, and never forget, how much
I think you are worth; I done it for love.”
This incredible message is God’s Christmas gift to each one of us –
what we do with it is our gift to God.
Let me share with you a beautiful poem, which I feel lays before us
all the real challenges of Christmas — I pray we take it to heart and live
it.
When the song of the angels is stilled,
When the star in the sky is gone, when the kings and
princes are home,
When the shepherds are back with their flocks
The work of Christmas begins:
To find the lost,
To heal the broken,
To feed the hungry,
To release the prisoners,
To rebuild the nations,
To bring peace among brothers, sisters, and family,
To make music with the heart.
“I done it for love — I done it for love,” says the God of Creation.
What will we do Christmas 2024?
I close with a short meditation written by a former inmate at
Tehachapi Prison.
The shepherd brought wooly lambs to the stable where He lay.
The Wise Men gave him gifts so rare from their own homes far
away.
The keeper of the village inn lent the manger and the hay.
But what have I to offer at Mass this Christmas Day?
The blanket that I had planned to weave lies raveled and not done.
’Twas made of good intentions but I broke them one by one.
The pillow I was going to fill and place beneath his head,
held not the feathers of good deeds, but thorns of sin instead. Time after time, I’ve promised great presents for my King.
Just as many times again, cold empty hands I bring.
Now gazing at that child with Mary standing near,
The answer comes from deep within and banishes all fear;
I give to you these eyes of mine, let them see those in need.
Accept my hands, they now are yours, for only worthwhile deeds.
My feet I give, that they may walk the right path and not stray.
Take my arms, let them support others on the way.
My heart, my mind, my will I give with the humble prayers I say,
These are the gifts I offer you; accept them all today.
What will we do Christmas 2024
A Thought Before Christmas 12-22-2024
December 21st, 2024There is a story that comes out of India which tells of a beggar
whose great hope was that he would meet the king. Then, he dreamed,
alms would be given him unasked and wealth scattered all around him in
the dust. One day, the king’s golden chariot came into the village and
actually stopped where the beggar stood. The king saw the poor man,
got out of the chariot, and walked with a smile toward him.
The beggar was ecstatic. He felt that good fortune had come his
way at last. But instead of giving him anything, the king held out his
hand and said, “What do you have to give to me?” The beggar was
confused and undecided. Then slowly, he took from his loaded
knapsack a single grain of wheat and gave it to the king. The king made
no move to give him anything in return. Disillusioned and dejected, the
beggar walked to his bare room. At day’s end, he emptied his bag on the
floor and was surprised to find a single grain of gold among all the other
grains of wheat. He wept bitterly and thought: “If only I had the heart to
give the king my all.
The beggar found only a single grain of gold in his bag because he
had given away only a single grain of wheat. If he had given more, he
would have received more.
A few weeks before Christmas – in the midst of money being tight,
and the normal Christmas rush and pressure – we have many things to
give – Let us not be afraid to give them. How about these:
1. Remember an old friend
2. Call or write to someone who has lost someone through death
3. Give peace
4. Forgive an enemy
5. Set differences aside in our families
6. Give of yourself – a small bit of quality time
7. Perform an act of kindness
8. Offer a few sincere thoughtful words of encouragement and
affirmation.
9. Give love
and guess what, Christmas will be forever! Wouldn’t that be great!
